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ADHD Study Habits for Teens (From a Mom Who Gets It)

Struggling with teen homework meltdowns? These ADHD-friendly study tips—like the BROIL note-taking method, chunking assignments, Pomodoro timers, and body-doubling—help teens stay focused, manage time, and actually get things done.

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Carolyn DeFir Carolyn DeFir

Your Middle & High School Survival Guide: Mantras & Tips for Grades 6–12

Every school year comes with its own flavor of chaos—6th grade is about settling in, 7th grade is all about those screened-school grades, and 8th grade? Let’s just say “survival” is the mantra. I put together a grade-by-grade guide (6–12) with simple mantras to keep you sane, whether you’re navigating Regents, the SHSAT, or just surviving prom season.

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Carolyn DeFir Carolyn DeFir

How to Help Your ADHD Teen Get Stuff Done This Summer

Got a teen with ADHD and big goals this fall? This guide shares practical, neurodivergent-friendly tips for tackling SHSAT prep, summer homework, and arts audition practice—without the drama. Perfect for NYC parents who want structure and sanity this summer.

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Carolyn DeFir Carolyn DeFir

NYC High School Admissions 2025 Timeline: What to Expect & When

When does the high school application open? When do we register for the SHSAT? What even is a “tier”?
If you’re a NYC parent asking these questions—or frantically Googling them—you’re not alone. This post breaks down the entire NYC high school admissions timeline based on last year’s dates, so you know what’s coming and when. From open houses to application deadlines to SHSAT test days, here’s what to expect (and what you don’t need to panic about yet).

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