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Ep.40/afterschool activities, clubs & sports: why they matter

In this episode of School Smarts NYC,  Carolyn discusses the significance of extracurricular activities for high school students. She emphasizes the importance of finding a balance between involvement and personal well-being, addressing the pressures students face in today's competitive environment. Carolyn provides insights into how clubs and activities can foster connections, support mental health, and play a crucial role in college admissions. She encourages parents to focus on their child's interests and joy rather than merely checking boxes for college applications.

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Ep.39/(Bonus Episode) intention setting vs resolutions: a gentler way to REview your year (for busy parents of teens)

In this episode of School Smarts NYC, Carolyn reflects on the past year and discusses the importance of setting intentions rather than resolutions as the new year approaches. She emphasizes the value of reviewing one's calendar to identify patterns and set meaningful goals for the upcoming year, particularly for parents of teens navigating the high school admissions process. Carolyn encourages listeners to involve their teens in this reflective process, fostering a supportive environment for personal growth and family bonding.

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Ep.38/iep’s & 504’s in high school: planning the transition from middle school

In this episode of the School Smarts NYC podcast, host Carolyn DeFir discusses the transition from middle school to high school, focusing on the importance of understanding IEPs and 504 plans. She shares insights on navigating high school admissions, preparing for support systems, and the role of parental advocacy in ensuring students receive the necessary accommodations. Carolyn emphasizes the need for proactive planning and communication as families approach this significant transition in their children's education.

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Ep.37/so you got a callback…(or you didn’t): what it means, what it doesn’t, an d what to do next

In this episode of the School Smarts NYC podcast, host Carolyn DeFir discusses the complexities of the New York City high school admissions process, particularly focusing on the significance of callbacks. She emphasizes the importance of understanding what callbacks mean, how to navigate the anxiety surrounding them, and the need for students to be themselves during auditions. Carolyn also touches on the collaborative nature of arts schools and reassures parents that not receiving a callback does not determine a student's worth or future opportunities. The episode concludes with a preview of upcoming topics, including IEPs and 504s in high school.

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Ep.36/Congratulations, you hit submit…now what?

In this episode of the School Smarts NYC podcast, host Carolyn DeFir congratulates parents and students on completing the high school admissions process. She emphasizes the importance of taking a moment to breathe and celebrate the hard work that went into the journey. Carolyn discusses the waiting period after submitting applications, offering advice on how to cope with the anxiety of waiting for results. She encourages listeners to find balance in their lives beyond admissions, suggesting activities to help them relax and recharge. Finally, Carolyn looks ahead to the next steps in preparing for high school, including course planning and supporting students through the transition.

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Ep.35/before you hit submit: your final nyc high school application Q&A

In this episode of School Smarts NYC, host Carolyn DeFir guides listeners through the complexities of the New York City high school admissions process. She shares personal experiences, answers frequently asked questions, and provides practical advice for parents and students navigating this challenging journey. From understanding school rankings to managing applications for zoned schools, Carolyn emphasizes the importance of making informed choices and trusting one's instincts. The episode concludes with encouragement for families as they approach application deadlines, reminding them of the hard work they've put in and the support available to them.

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Ep.34/Two weeks to go:your last minute, no-panic game plan

In this episode of School Smarts NYC, host Carolyn DeFir guides listeners through the complexities of the New York City high school admissions process. She shares personal experiences, answers frequently asked questions, and provides practical advice for parents and students navigating this challenging journey. From understanding school rankings to managing applications for zoned schools, Carolyn emphasizes the importance of making informed choices and trusting one's instincts. The episode concludes with encouragement for families as they approach application deadlines, reminding them of the hard work they've put in and the support available to them.

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Ep.33/(Bonus Episode) Tour Report #12: Eleanor Roosevelt High School

In this episode of the School Smarts NYC podcast, Carolyn provides an in-depth tour report of Eleanor Roosevelt High School, highlighting its academic rigor, supportive community, and vibrant arts programs. She discusses the school's culture, student engagement, and the importance of college preparation, while also addressing the competitive admissions process. The episode serves as a comprehensive guide for families navigating the high school landscape in New York City.

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Ep.32/(Bonus Episode) Tour Report #11: new explorations in science, technology & Math (nest+m)

In this episode of the School Smarts NYC podcast, host Carolyn DeFir provides an in-depth tour report of Midwood High School, highlighting its academic programs, school culture, extracurricular activities, and support systems. She discusses the school's size, the various specialized programs available, and the vibrant school spirit. Carolyn also covers the admissions process and the college readiness resources offered to students, making a compelling case for why Midwood is a top choice for families navigating the NYC high school landscape.

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Ep.31/(Bonus Episode) Tour Report #10: Midwood High School at Brooklyn college

In this episode of the School Smarts NYC podcast, host Carolyn DeFir provides an in-depth tour report of Midwood High School, highlighting its academic programs, school culture, extracurricular activities, and support systems. She discusses the school's size, the various specialized programs available, and the vibrant school spirit. Carolyn also covers the admissions process and the college readiness resources offered to students, making a compelling case for why Midwood is a top choice for families navigating the NYC high school landscape.

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Ep.30/hidden gems: nyc high schools you might not know—But should

In this episode of the School Smarts NYC podcast, host Carolyn DeFir discusses the current landscape of school applications, particularly focusing on the assessment anxiety faced by families. She emphasizes the importance of listing a sufficient number of schools on applications and explores the concept of 'hidden gems' in the school system, highlighting lesser-known schools that offer strong educational opportunities. The conversation also delves into specific hidden gems in the Bronx and Brooklyn, providing insights into their unique programs and advantages. In this conversation, Carolyn discusses various hidden gem schools in Manhattan, Queens, and Staten Island, emphasizing the importance of considering lesser-known options that may provide excellent educational experiences. She highlights specific schools, their unique programs, and the supportive environments they offer. Carolyn also shares tips on how to find hidden gems and the significance of fit over prestige in school selection.

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Ep.29/(Bonus Episode) Tour Report #9: Edward R. Murrow High School

In this episode of the School Smarts NYC podcast, host Carolyn DeFir provides an in-depth exploration of Edward R. Murrow High School, one of Brooklyn's largest and most iconic high schools. She discusses the school's unique offerings, including its renowned arts programs, the Communication Arts program, and the growing emphasis on STEM and sports. Carolyn emphasizes the vibrant school spirit and the diverse opportunities available for students, encouraging parents to consider Murrow as a viable option for their children. The episode concludes with key takeaways and encouragement for families navigating the high school admissions process.

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Ep.28/(Bonus Episode) Tour Report #8: university neighborhood high school

In this episode of the School Smarts NYC podcast, host Carolyn DeFir xplores the rising popularity of University Neighborhood High School (UNHS) in New York City. She discusses the school's unique culture, strong leadership from the principal, and the various academic programs and support systems in place to help students succeed. The episode also delves into the admissions process, highlighting the importance of lottery numbers and the different pathways available for enrollment. Carolyn emphasizes the school's commitment to providing a nurturing environment where every student can thrive academically and personally.

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Ep.27/(Bonus Episode) Tour Report #7: NYC iSchool

In this episode of the School Smarts NYC podcast, host Carolyn DeFir explores the unique educational landscape of iSchool in Soho, NYC. With a focus on student choice and real-world learning, iSchool offers a distinctive curriculum that emphasizes critical thinking and creativity over traditional testing. The school provides a supportive environment with dedicated college counseling, making it an appealing option for independent and creative students. The admissions process is straightforward, requiring only essays, and the school fosters a personalized experience for its small student body. Carolyn concludes with resources for prospective students and families.

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Ep.26/assessment anxiety: Helpin our kids (& ourselves) keep calm & carry on…to the test room.

In this episode of the School Smarts NYC podcast, host Carolyn DeFir discusses the overwhelming stress associated with high school admissions, particularly focusing on anxiety experienced by both students and parents. She shares practical strategies for managing anxiety, including visualization techniques, breathing exercises, and day-of stress relievers. Carolyn emphasizes the importance of preparation and self-regulation for both parents and students, encouraging a supportive environment during the admissions process.

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Ep.25/don’t wait ‘til after trick or treat: The SHSAT deadline peptalk

In this episode of the School Smarts NYC podcast, host Carolyn DeFir discusses the complexities of navigating the New York City high school admissions process, particularly focusing on specialized high schools. She emphasizes the importance of understanding application deadlines, ranking schools wisely, and managing stress during this challenging time for families. Carolyn provides insights into the admissions algorithm, the significance of school rankings, and the necessity of registering for testing accommodations. She also offers encouragement to parents and students as they approach the midway point of the admissions journey.

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Ep.24/Bonus Episode tour report #6: Baruch High School

In this episode of the School Smarts NYC podcast, host Carolyn DeFir provides an in-depth overview of Baruch High School, a small screened school in Manhattan. She discusses the school's educational philosophy, community values, curriculum offerings, special education programs, extracurricular activities, and the admissions process. Carolyn shares insights from her personal experience and research, aiming to help families navigate the high school admissions journey in New York City.

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Ep.23/How to know if it’s a good fit- The Art & Science of school matchmaking

In this episode of the School Smarts NYC podcast, host Carolyn DeFir guides parents through the complex process of navigating high school admissions in New York City. She shares her personal experiences as a parent and master IEP coach, emphasizing the importance of finding a school that is a good fit for each child. Carolyn discusses the significance of school tours, evaluating academic and extracurricular opportunities, and the logistics of commuting. She encourages parents to engage with their children throughout the process and to trust their instincts when selecting schools. The episode is filled with practical tips and insights to help families make informed decisions during this critical time.

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Ep.22/Bonus Episode Tour Report #5: the beacon School

In this episode of the School Smarts NYC podcast, host Carolyn DeFir discusses the recent changes in the admissions process at Beacon School, one of New York City's most talked-about high schools. She shares her personal experiences attending an open house, insights into the school's academic structure, and the vibrant student life. Carolyn emphasizes the importance of the new leadership at Beacon and how it aims to create a supportive environment for all students. The episode concludes with reflections on what makes Beacon a unique educational institution and advice for prospective students and parents.

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Ep.21/you asked, i answered: The most-asked questions (so far) since nyc high school applications opened last week

In this episode of the School Smarts NYC podcast, Carolyn discusses the complexities of navigating the New York City high school application process. She addresses frequently asked questions, shares insights on ranking schools, understanding lottery numbers, and utilizing chance predictors. Carolyn also provides guidance on applying to art schools, managing open house challenges, and making changes to school applications. With a blend of humor and practical advice, she aims to support families through this often overwhelming journey.

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